How Unmanaged Trauma Can Affect Your Relationship

Kangs Trevens offers trauma-informed depth empathy rooted in Nonviolent Communication and resonant language. He mixes compassion and authentic care with healing practices from NVC, neuroscience and family constellations. He has 11 years of experience as a mental health counselor working in Residential Treatment and supports his clients in exploring unconscious traumas and how they are…

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The Secret To Getting Your Needs Met

Greta Grace, LMFT has over 30 years of professional therapy experience, specializing in couples, individuals and sexual education. She is committed to your empowerment through the cultivation of skills and resources to create vibrant intimacy and an optimized life. From Southern Belle to Seminary to Sexual Educator, Greta Grace is a licensed Marriage and Family…

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Attract Love Like Never Before

Naomie Thompson is a dating and relationship coach living on the south coast of England. Naomie and I talk about the power of connecting with your own vulnerability and what that looks like in your relationship. And we explore this whole idea of “holding space” – what that really means. In her coaching practise Naomie…

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Letting Emotions Guide Us Back To Each Other

Every relationship experiences a rupture at some time – an argument that causes a disconnection. And sometimes when that happens, we feel lost and unsure how to find our way back. My guest today, Brad Werner, is an attachment oriented therapist who works with couples, families and individuals. He offers clinical supervision for counselors, and…

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How To Bring Out The Intimacy And Closeness

Dr. Nethra Samarawickrema supports individuals and couples through her coaching practice called “Find Your Yes.” She teaches couples key skills for building intimacy using her toolkit called “Communication for Co-Creation.” Her clients learn how to design an intentional relationship, by listening for each other’s needs, and by creating agreements that can hold these needs while…

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Turn Arguments Into Opportunities For Deeper Connection

Usually, I try to edit these episodes down to 15 minutes or so. But, once Newt and I got rolling, there was so much good information that I decided to leave it all in, and let the episode run a little long. Since 2007, Newt Bailey has been leading workshops and retreats, coaching individuals and…

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Jeffrey And Rori In The Raw #1

This episode is a bit different. In fact, it’s an experiment. Rori Raye (my wife) and I decided to try something new – where we set up the mic and start recording – with no planning. Instead, the goal is to capture us talking about our decades-long marriage – what’s worked and what hasn’t worked…

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How To Express Your Needs So He Can Hear Them

Benson Scott is a restorative justice practitioner, specializing in mediation and education. One of my earliest memories of Benson is watching him mediate for a couple, in a workshop, and I was blown away by how skilled he was in bringing clarity and connection to both participants. In this episode, he shares with us what…

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The First Step To Fixing What’s Going Wrong

Rori Raye is best known as the author of Have The Relationship You Want and creator of The Modern Siren. She is also my wife, and many of the things we talk about here, we’ve actually test-run in our marriage. This episode was initially meant to be a “practice” episode for my podcast. After listening…

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Attract Him Forever

Jen Michelle is a LCSW and Certified Relationship Coach, who previously worked with men as a clinical social worker. In this episode, Jen shares with us her wisdom from years of working exclusively with men, and how those skills played out in her own marriage. She is passionate about helping women become their most authentic…

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