How Unmanaged Trauma Can Affect Your Relationship

Kangs Trevens offers trauma-informed depth empathy rooted in Nonviolent Communication and resonant language. He mixes compassion and authentic care with healing practices from NVC, neuroscience and family constellations. He has 11 years of experience as a mental health counselor working in Residential Treatment and supports his clients in exploring unconscious traumas and how they are…

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How To Bring Out The Intimacy And Closeness

Dr. Nethra Samarawickrema supports individuals and couples through her coaching practice called “Find Your Yes.” She teaches couples key skills for building intimacy using her toolkit called “Communication for Co-Creation.” Her clients learn how to design an intentional relationship, by listening for each other’s needs, and by creating agreements that can hold these needs while…

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Turn Arguments Into Opportunities For Deeper Connection

Usually, I try to edit these episodes down to 15 minutes or so. But, once Newt and I got rolling, there was so much good information that I decided to leave it all in, and let the episode run a little long. Since 2007, Newt Bailey has been leading workshops and retreats, coaching individuals and…

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Jeffrey And Rori In The Raw #1

This episode is a bit different. In fact, it’s an experiment. Rori Raye (my wife) and I decided to try something new – where we set up the mic and start recording – with no planning. Instead, the goal is to capture us talking about our decades-long marriage – what’s worked and what hasn’t worked…

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How To Express Your Needs So He Can Hear Them

Benson Scott is a restorative justice practitioner, specializing in mediation and education. One of my earliest memories of Benson is watching him mediate for a couple, in a workshop, and I was blown away by how skilled he was in bringing clarity and connection to both participants. In this episode, he shares with us what…

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